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This weekend, I have spent, spending my time very productive. Yesterday, I slept half of my day. Really a rest day huh. And spent time alone shopping some stuffs like a dress and a bikini.
Ahh, it feels good that I can feel myself regaining :)
Anyway, yesterday also I had a little movie marathon. I have watched Letters to Juliet and Sex & the City 2. I’m really inspired with these 2 movies. On Letters to Juliet, I was inspired with their quotes like “love has no expiration” and the letter itself written to Claire.
In Sex & the City, Carrie reminds me somehow of my personality, especially for being honest to whatever it takes. I’m also amazed with her relationship.
Today, I cooked again for our lunch my Adobo Espesyal and never thought my dad would like it. They said it’s delicious! Hooray for me! :)
I love cooking and never thought I would get better in it.
While I was cooking my Adobo Espesyal, One More Chance was playing on our TV at Cinema One channel.
Whenever I watch this movie, I always cry. I have watched this movie for many times already and it taught me a lot. But this time it’s different. I was able to compare it somehow with my relationship. It’s like Basha = Arjo and Popoy = me. It was Basha who needed to find herself in the movie, same goes to my loved-one. The film doesn’t really state exactly about our relationship but somehow I can relate it like that. Something that really strikes me is the one that Derek said in the movie. Two people need a break / space in order for them to grow mature. The latter part, where Basha sits on the bench at the field of the UST is for me the best part of the movie. When Basha needed a space, she cannot express much of herself which made Popoy ridiculous and it was really full of misunderstandings. But when Popoy has finally realized that he needed to find himself because of the damage he had been all through their relationship up to the part Basha asked for her space, was a good move. He didn’t want Basha to hurt the same way as he had.
Personal space, space or whatever we call it really helps in relationships. Because if we continue to journey without stopping, we’ll end up losing ourselves and losing our loved-one. :)
Acceptance, forgiveness, honesty, openness, communication, respect to one another are the keys.
